Have you ever feels like everything is going against you and everything you do, no matter how hard you tried, it all just went down one by one? I don't normally write all the bad and sad stuffs in my blog, but that doesn't mean I don't go through any. I am still human afterall. I just want to share the good moments I had and leave out the bad moments for myself. I mean, who would want their friends to be sad with them? But seems like just writing good memories gave some people the wrong idea about my life, about me.
I always thought, a person have the right to choose what to write and what not to write. We can write about almost anything, but it is right to judge a person just based on what the person wrote? What we wrote, may not be everything it seems to be. We may leave out some details, either forgotten or intentionally, or if the readers pay attention enough, they will notice that there is a 'part 1' written on the title and the post was actually incomplete, not the whole story told. If you just read Harry Potter book 1, would you know that Harry Potter going to have a son named after Professor Snape in book 7?
Ok, so you may create your own storyline, own speculations, own assumptions, but do you honestly think that what you created, speculated and assumed would be accurate, correct? We can't stop people from making assumptions, it's human nature, I know that. But to use that assumptions, which you doesn't even know if it's right or wrong, against someone, have you ever considered that person's feeling? So you don't know the whole story, but what the heck happened to "asking"? So now it's like, "accuse first, ask later"? Geez, I always thought we were all taught since we were little, "don't know anything, ask".
I know it's not easy being a good person, I am not saying I am, and I am not saying you aren't. But when wrong assumption been made, false accusation been thrown, feeling got hurt. And that feeling happened to be mine. I am not saying who's wrong or who's right. I do know I am the main factor why all those assumptions were made. But to be accused of something which I didn't do, it hurts a lot. And what hurts the most is that you actually think I was that kind of person. But I do understand your reasons and the pressures you have. I know I am not the only one with problems.
It took me quite a long time to think if I should write this post, if I should post it. Worried of the misunderstanding it may raise, worried of more assumptions in the making which could make matter worst, but what I worried the most is if it would ruin our friendship. Of course I don't want any of the above to happen, and just so you know, I never thought what you did was wrong, but it just happened my feeling were hurt at the same time. You did what you need to do, and I sincerely apologize for putting you in such a situation.
Cause in the end, all my opinions, all what I have said in the first few paragraph, they all doesn't matter anymore. As it is I myself to be blamed for getting my own feeling hurt. Myself, and no one else...
I always thought, a person have the right to choose what to write and what not to write. We can write about almost anything, but it is right to judge a person just based on what the person wrote? What we wrote, may not be everything it seems to be. We may leave out some details, either forgotten or intentionally, or if the readers pay attention enough, they will notice that there is a 'part 1' written on the title and the post was actually incomplete, not the whole story told. If you just read Harry Potter book 1, would you know that Harry Potter going to have a son named after Professor Snape in book 7?
Ok, so you may create your own storyline, own speculations, own assumptions, but do you honestly think that what you created, speculated and assumed would be accurate, correct? We can't stop people from making assumptions, it's human nature, I know that. But to use that assumptions, which you doesn't even know if it's right or wrong, against someone, have you ever considered that person's feeling? So you don't know the whole story, but what the heck happened to "asking"? So now it's like, "accuse first, ask later"? Geez, I always thought we were all taught since we were little, "don't know anything, ask".
I know it's not easy being a good person, I am not saying I am, and I am not saying you aren't. But when wrong assumption been made, false accusation been thrown, feeling got hurt. And that feeling happened to be mine. I am not saying who's wrong or who's right. I do know I am the main factor why all those assumptions were made. But to be accused of something which I didn't do, it hurts a lot. And what hurts the most is that you actually think I was that kind of person. But I do understand your reasons and the pressures you have. I know I am not the only one with problems.
It took me quite a long time to think if I should write this post, if I should post it. Worried of the misunderstanding it may raise, worried of more assumptions in the making which could make matter worst, but what I worried the most is if it would ruin our friendship. Of course I don't want any of the above to happen, and just so you know, I never thought what you did was wrong, but it just happened my feeling were hurt at the same time. You did what you need to do, and I sincerely apologize for putting you in such a situation.
Cause in the end, all my opinions, all what I have said in the first few paragraph, they all doesn't matter anymore. As it is I myself to be blamed for getting my own feeling hurt. Myself, and no one else...
